- Go to bed and wake up at set times. This will mean making choices, especially if friends and family aren’t headed to bed at the same time. The body will eventually conform to a sleep schedule if it is routinely followed.
- Help yourself unwind and prepare to rest. When there is an evening pattern the body gets the signal that bedtime and sleep are approaching. Evening habits could be anything from watching a certain television program to reading for a set amount of time. Personal care habits like brushing teeth and hair, taking a warm bath or washing the face with a warm washcloth all send the message that it’s time to relax.
- Anxieties can keep people awake. Have a strategy like writing down troubling concerns in a notebook. People of faith may express their worries in prayer. Once the brain has dealt with the anxiety in some form it becomes easier to set aside.
- If anxiety persists, try focusing on breathing. This doesn’t mean you need to change how you breathe, simply give it your full attention. Count each breath – inhale and exhale – to 10 and then start again until you feel at peace.
- Listen to soothing music. Music that relaxes the soul without engaging the mind is best. Choose instrumental pieces or music that blends orchestration with sounds from nature. You want the benefits of music without the distraction of lyrics.
- Protect your sleep environment. Clean sheets and a comfortable bed invite rest. Temperature can also affect sleep, so do what is needed to make the bedroom a pleasant atmosphere. Eliminate all ambient light (cell phones, computers, digital clocks, television) as even a small amount of light can confuse the body. Control noise with a white noise machine or electric fan.
- Do needed housework
- Volunteer
- Schedule lunch or coffee dates
- Have a regular exercise plan
- Walk the dog
- Attend support group meetings
- Phone friends/write letters.

