What Is Anxiety?
Anxiety is a severe mental health condition. It involves intense dread, unease, or guilt that become so powerful that they begin to take over your life. It produces a range of intense symptoms you can feel, such as:- Increased heartbeat
- Fatigue
- Headaches
- Difficulty with concentration
- Nausea
Prioritize Your Life
If you’re like many people, as you become trapped in an endless cycle of work, errands, and other responsibilities, you begin to lose sight of those things that are important to maintaining a good emotional state and a good quality of life. Make a list of what is genuinely important to you. It’s not uncommon to allow the quest for unimportant things to rule our lives. Take time to write down what is vital in your life. You may want to take steps such as:- Nurture personal growth
- Achieve career goals
- Have a positive impact on the community
- Spend time with family or friends
- Express yourself creatively
Create a Schedule
Scheduling reduces stress by empowering you to divide time according to your priorities. Find a system that works. Give yourself a good foundation for sticking to a schedule by using a system that’s comfortable for you. Some people might prefer a giant paper calendar hung in a prominent place, while others will work better using planning software. Consider using family organization software, which allows multiple people to add and share appointments if you must manage multiple schedules, such as caring for a son’s soccer practice and a mom’s doctor appointments. You can also reduce anxiety levels by padding the schedule with extra time throughout the day. For example, your typical dental appointment might last 30 minutes. However, by planning for a 60-minute appointment, you reduce the chance you’ll be rushing to your next commitment because the dental office is behind schedule. You can also schedule time for yourself. One of the biggest stumbling blocks to living a reduced-stress lifestyle is the inability of many of us to take time for ourselves. Combat emotionally- and physically-draining anxiety by scheduling time away from activity and chaos each day. Here are simple strategies:- Eat lunch away from your desk
- Wake up 20 minutes before the rest of the house to enjoy tea or coffee and sit with a favorite pet or book
- Start the workday with a few minutes of stretching or deep breathing
Reduce Clutter
From school papers littering the dining room table to pairs of shoes scattered randomly throughout the house, your home likely has its own unique clouds of clutter. Fighting through that mess, especially when you’re on the go, creates frustration that raises anxiety. In fact, a disorganized home or office can quickly transform an ordinary day into a stressful one. Organizing your corner of the world is an excellent first step toward reducing anxiety and making the day smoother and less stressful. When the act of living has overrun your life, all that clutter can seem overwhelming. Start by reorganizing the areas critical to your everyday existence. Perhaps that means cleaning out years of junk from the closet so you can store clothing in it instead of frantically hunting through piles on the floor. For others, it might involve setting up the foyer so the family can easily locate backpacks, computer bags, and coats in the morning. Once you’re comfortable organizing one space, you can move on to other areas. To benefit from the reduced anxiety that comes with organization, you’ll need to maintain it. If, for example, you’ve reorganized the foyer, it may take a few days or weeks for everyone to get into the habit of putting items in their proper place. You’ll also want to plan a quick clean-up once a week to make sure the space stays organized and isn’t drifting out of control.Learn to Say No
Saying ‘no’ can be challenging. Sometimes, you may agree to a task out of a sense of responsibility or because you don’t want to offend or upset the person asking you. Regardless of why you agree to take on an extra load, over-commitment is a big contributor to high anxiety levels. Keep your focus on your priorities, and politely decline additional requests for your time, talent, and energy.What to Do If You Can’t Control Your Anxiety
Worry is normal to a point, but when it turns into full-blown anxiety, it can take over your life. However, you can take positive measures by learning strategies for managing stress. Give your emotional well-being a boost by using the steps above. As your anxiety dissipates, you’ll be able to focus on building a more fulfilling and enjoyable life. If you can’t control your anxiety, it may be time to consider professional treatment. Cognitive behavioral therapy has been shown to be an effective treatment for anxiety disorders. During cognitive-behavioral therapy, you work with a therapist to identify negative thinking patterns and replace them with positive, productive ones. Other therapeutic options that can help you control your anxiety include:- Dialectical behavior therapy
- Group therapy
- Individual therapy
- Equine-assisted therapy
- Life skills training
